Children’s are not psychologists
Do not try to tell each and every problem of you to your child. Children’s are not psychologists. They don’t know the solution to your problems,and they are very young to know anything about how society works and all.
Do not make them unworthy
If a member of the family is not present, do not try to tell the child that he didn’t want him. Children’s are very sensitive to information, and one wrong mistake can ruin their life. They may think that their father doesn’t want them, so he’s not present. This can generate a feeling of unworthiness in them. Try to ensure them that everyone wanted them. You can tell them every truth when they become old enough to listen.
Do not pressurize
All of us want our children to become something more than what we are. That’s why we want to pressurize them to work even harder, and fulfill our expectations. However, that’s not a good thing to do. Children’s do not like to get pressurized, and if you do so, anxiety will start growing in them. Try to find the best interests and capabilities of your child, and support them in pursuing a career in them. This will not only increase the chances of the child to become more successful but will also increase their respect towards you.
Your child is not your frustration box
There are many problems in a parent’s life including work problems, divorce et cetera. And we all want to tell our problems to the people closest to us. On these occasions, we think – who can be better than our children? However, that’s not a good idea. Venting your frustration on your children can result in disaffection. They may start to dislike you because you went anger against them for no reason. We’re not saying that you should not use tough love when the situation requires but not every time especially for no reason.